January 2011
39 posts
Some dealmakers
These are as important as dealbreakers. And while I’m sure my dealbreakers are really specific, these are less so. You can’t have any of the dealbreakers but you have to have all of the dealmakers, too. <3
1. Knowing what you want in life.
2. Supporting my dreams and having your own.
3. Hearing and accepting “no” as easily as “yes.”
4. Shared feelings...
Some dealbreakers
Everyone should have dealbreakers…
1. Making demands rather than requests. “You have to do this.” vs. “Would you do this?” Sometimes a “Would you do this?” is just a more manipulative way of phrasing “You have to do this” if the person asking isn’t actually okay with hearing “no.”
2. In a well-defined relationship,...
